“The culture shift we envision begins with communication and ends with connection,” writes Cathy Braxton and Tami Neumann on page 11 of their book, Start with Yes! A Unique Way to Communicate with Persons Living with Dementia. They are the creators of the DementiaRAW method. In a world (mostly internet world) that is filled with too much information to possibly sort through on the topic of dementia, they get to the heart of what a caregiver needs to form better connections and provide better care. They have shown us how to apply improv and the workings of basic human seeking to dementia. Many of you know that I love working with people who understand theatre because they know how to jump in, jump into the world of the person they are caring for, jump into the flexible roles, and jump into creativity. This book shows us how to start becoming better caregivers, friends, family members, and neighbors to those living with one of the many diseases that fall under the dementia umbrella by learning how to jump in. It is short enough to be a realistic and practical guide, yet deep enough to actually be resourceful. It is a book all should have in their personal library.
We all long for connection. Connection to each other, to our world, to our own lives. We can develop that connection through communication, and the appropriate form of communication. In the dense and often overly medical and academic (and frequently negative) guides out there, this book is a gem. Thank you, Tami and Cathy!